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There's an old song by Gordon Lightfoot called Sundown, where he says *I can see her lookin fast in her faded jeans she's a hard lovin woman got me feelin mean*. The word *mean* hear does not mean *cruel*, but I think you could see how it is clear that the word *mean* here conjures the right attitude, an attitude of ATTRACTION and not WORSHIP.
Ahh, time for another eye-opener: IF YOU ARE BEING A MAN, AND FEELING GOOD ABOUT YOUR NATURAL ATTRACTION TO HER, INSTEAD OF FEELING ASHAMED OF IT, THEN YOU DON'T HAVE TO WORRY ABOUT WHAT TO SAY SO MUCH. Whatever it is, keep it light, and then arrange what you want- a coffee date right then and there? *Hey, let's chat this over a coffee- there's a cafe/coffee house/whatever right there* Maybe you are on the run, so you'll just ask for her email. You are THE MAN, she is looking for you to LEAD, so it's UP TO YOU. Just BE A MAN, and feel comfortable with that, there is NOTHING wrong with you ENJOYING the feeling of being with a hot woman. And being a man, you have the privilege to TAKE ACTION and MAKE THE DECISIONS- it's what she WANTS you to do! And GUESS WHAT ELSE HAPPENS WHEN YOU ARE FEELING SEXUAL? YOU CANNOT FEEL FEAR. |
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So what happens is the jerk who is a total loser and never worked a day in his life, and who has no time for his girlfriend because he is too busy chasing other girls, has her going crazy for him because by simply being HARD TO GET, he accidentally activated the SWITCH in her head that makes her feel *THIS IS A SEXUALLY DESIRABLE GUY!*
See? It's NOT logical, but you can understand how it could have made sense, had the REASON for being hard to get been different. |
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Don't get too clever with approach lines. Just take a look at her and find something you can ask her about. Is she wearing a cool watch? A nice necklace? Nice shoes? Then you come up to her and say: *Hi, I noticed your watch/shoes/whatever, and I wondered if you got that in this neighborhood? I'm looking for something for my sister.* Then, always follow up with a teasing comment: *I mean, she's a lot younger than you, but you're pretty fashionable for an old lady.* And give a big smile to show her you're busting her balls. If she gets indignant or weird, you excuse yourself and move on. But that's pretty rare. More than likely, you've got yourself a conversation with a woman. Congratulations!
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